Premarital Counseling is also advisable for partners who want to form a lifelong, sacred partnership.When engaged couples take the time to learn skills of communication, conflict resolution, creating and maintaining deeper intimacy, and developing coping skills to navigate life stresses that will inevitably come their way, they set themselves up for greater future success in marriage.We allow each of you to be heard and guide you toward really hearing each other.You will be guided toward sharing and nurturing one another’s needs, comforting and soothing each others hurts and building a deeper bond and sense of connection with each other.Our therapeutic practice is based on the theoretical approach of Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy.You can learn more about EFT through Hearts Counseling offers married couples a safe place to identify deeper emotions that are at the core of their fights or sense of disconnection.Emotional safety requires compassion for one another, respect and emotional responsiveness to one another’s feelings and needs.
Whether through having the same fights over and over again, broken trust, or feelings of disconnection, it can create an environment of fear, anger, doubt, grief, frustration and longing.
Your relationship with your spouse is the most important relationship you have. It’s a common question to ask why we hurt the ones we love the most.
It’s because it’s where we are most vulnerable, and with vulnerability comes fear.
In order for a relationship to be healthy, there must be a sense of emotional safety for both partners to be able to reach for one another and know that the other will be accessible and responsive.
To be open enough with each other to feel connected and create a sense of deeper intimacy.