The good news: There are so many dudes out there doing it So Very Wrong that a woman is likely to appreciate a man who does this right.
If a guy’s profile is full of shots of him in sunglasses, dressed up for Halloween, or in miniature in front of the Great Wall of China, it’s hard not to suspect that he’s hiding something.Looks like Tinder is nothing more than the modern-day, tech version of your mom telling you those girls were just mean to you because they're "jealous."OK, that analogy might have been a little bit of a stretch, but you get the picture here. Any woman who's used any kind of dating app has been confronted with this most bemusing question, posed by what we can only imagine are men who have had wood for so dangerously long they've begun to experience brain death. The idea of a quick-and-dirty “Who wants to help me achieve orgasm?My friend has been talking to a guy on Tinder for FOUR MONTHS and has no intention of ever meeting up with him.In fact, she just called me yesterday to say he finally asked if he could take her on a date, and she was totally repulsed. I would log on to Tinder, swipe on a bunch of hot guys, make some casual, flirty small talk and never actually meet up with any of them.It's transparent and lazy, and makes us assume you're not someone who is concerned about stuff like consent or whether the other person actually enjoys sex.